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Week 2 of Shots
Posted by genescramble in egg donation, egg donor, egg donor match, embryos, infertility, IVF, Lupron, PNW Fertility, translocation on November 4, 2011
We are well on our way towards IVF with our egg donor. Today was the 11th shot I’ve given myself in the abdomen and now I get to add progesterone patches to the mix.Yesterday I went to see Dr. Lamb for an ultrasound to make sure my ovaries are “quiet”, plus I had some bloodwork done to make sure my estrogen levels are low. Everything is going according to plan so I put on two patches yesterday afternoon and switch them out for two more tomorrow. They are kind of like putting clear stickers on my tummy and they are very sticky on one side but feel like plastic on the other. I’ve been told they may leave a sticky residue on me and I should use some sort of sugar scrub to get it off (sounds like an excuse to go shopping for something).
My doctor also told me that she is very excited about the egg donor we picked. She said she is the sweetest person in the world and she has been good at getting other couples preggo. I’m keeping my fingers and toes crossed that that is the case for us too. She starts her meds next Friday and only about three more weeks til my DH goes in to give his “collection”. It really is going to come up quick!
We are heading to Portland OR this weekend for a little fun (although my DH may have to work some). I have to bring my lupron and patches and syringes with me so need to figure out a way to keep the lupron cold for the trip. I called the hotel and we do have a fridge in the room so that’s good. I hope it is a relaxing trip.
Happy Weekend,
H
We Have Dates!
Posted by genescramble in Acupuncture, baby, balanced translocation, blood choromosome analysis, egg donation, egg donor, egg donor match, embryos, genes, genetics, infertility, IVF, Lupron, parents, PNW Fertility, translocation on October 10, 2011
It’s been a while since I’ve posted on here but since we decided on an egg donor we now have official dates of when we will have embryos transferred! Right now it is looking like either November 30th or December 1st!
Right now it still doesn’t seem real but I start my shots in just 15 days from today. I have a calendar our nurse sent us which tells me what type of medication to do each day. I start on October 25th with a shot of Lupron in my stomach, which I will have to go into the doctor’s office to learn how to give myself. I also continue my birth control pills at this time for 5 days. I continue the Lupron shots and then on November 3rd I have to go in for an ultrasound and blood work. I guess if everything looks good at that time I start to halve the amount of Lupron each day and then start Progesterone Patches that are replaced every other day, and sometimes you add one…so I start out with two but by the time I’m finished with them I do 4 patches every other day. I head back to the doctor Nov. 17th for another ultrasound and blood work. Then I continue with Lupron and the 4 progesterone patches every other day until the donor is ready for retrieval. And then comes the nasty progesterone shots I’ve heard about which my hubby will have to give to me. 5 days after the egg donor goes in for retrieval and my husband give his sample we get one or two embryos transferred. It’s very exciting and I so hope it works.
I’ve also started acupuncture over the past few weeks for fertility. So many of my friends have done this in the past and who knows if it really helps in the long run but I have to believe it can’t hurt so I’m doing it. I’ve been going in once a week and tomorrow is my 3rd appointment. I also decided not to do the mayan abdominal massage for now. It is expensive and I talked to my acupuncturist and she didn’t really see any reason for me to do it since I haven’t had adhesions or endometriosis.
Sometimes I still can’t believe this is all happening and we have to endure so much to have a family but I’m sure it will all be worth it one day. I’ve asked my parents to get tested for the chromosomal translocation that I have. They’ve both agreed to do it but just may take some time. My mom doesn’t have a doctor she goes to regularly so she just needs to find a place she likes and get an appointment. My dad is doing some blood work for his diabetes this month anyways so hopefully he can get tested at the same time. There’s no real medical reason for them to get tested other than it might complete part of my puzzle — I think it would answer if I became this way because one of them carried these genetics or it just happened (which they call de novo). I would just like to know either way.
-H
One or Two Embryos?
Posted by genescramble in Acupuncture, baby, egg donation, egg donor, egg donor match, embryos, infertility, IVF, Lupron, Mayan Abdominal Massage, miscarriage, PNW Fertility on September 21, 2011
We still have a while to go before we will be transferring embryos, but I’m sure the time will go fast. It turns out the woman we chose as our match is currently in a cycle with another couple. So we have to wait til her period starts and then another 6 weeks after that. It sounds like we will be transferring embryos around the 2nd or 3rd week of November. Meanwhile I am taking BC pills and will not be taking the non-active pills so I can be ready to go at any time— I have to be on active pills at least 15 days before we can start the Progesterone Patches and Lupron shots which get my body ready to carry this baby (or babies).
While we wait for November to roll around we have a couple of things to figure out…well, really one big thing to figure out. Do we transfer 1 or 2 embryos? My doctor seems to think that we should only do 1 because I am on the petite side and not sure how I would handle having two kiddos in my belly. My understanding is if we transfer two that there is a 70% chance of having twins. Our Egg Donor Coordinator actually said we might as well name them! But, I am kind of in the mindset that if we transfer two and get twins than maybe we’ll be done creating our family. I do know it would be a hard couple of years with a lot of diapers, crying, feeding and no sleep, but it could be worth it since I’m not getting any younger.
Other things I’m starting to think about is starting acupuncture for fertility and possibly doing Mayan Abdominal Massage. I have a friend who went to Ruby Moon Wellness for the Ab Massage and then got pregnant so maybe it works? I’m going to talk to the masseuse about it tomorrow. I do start acupuncture with Susan Darling in Seattle next Thursday. I also found this article on Livestrong.com which tells me basically to watch my weight, eat right, don’t drink caffeine or alcohol, and stay hydrated; basically things you should do anyways. I’ve also heard before embryo transfer that I should start exercising less vigorously but for now it’s okay to exercise normally.
I’m looking forward to the end of September/early October when we find out more information on our timing. The rest of this year is going to get a bit crazy, but in a good way (I hope!)
-H
Matched!!
Posted by genescramble in baby, balanced translocation, egg donation, egg donor, egg donor match, genes, genetics, infertility, PNW Fertility on September 14, 2011
Today I am so happy to say that we have been matched with an Egg Donor!! Yesterday we met with our Egg Donor Coordinator and she gave us 5 fresh egg donor profiles and 5 frozen egg donor profiles to take home and mull over. Profiles list everything from weight, height, skin tone, age, hair and eye color to what they like to do and what their parents and siblings are like. In general, its kind of like looking at profiles on a dating web site or looking at cars online, only not seeing a photo. We are pretty much looking for a connection to this person along with somehow “matching” some of my characteristics.
When we left we decided to have lunch and pretty much went over the profiles on the spot. By the time I went home and he back to work we had one person we liked. Then we decided to go over them one more time last night and decided we really had 3 fresh egg and 1 frozen egg people we liked.
Funny how things work out…you would think we would have ended up going with the person who was first on our original list but unfortunately she is moving away sometime this fall and probably won’t be available. So we ended up with two others on our fresh list but one spoke to me more than the other so she is who we have chosen. I wrote back the coordinator—and the good news is our person is in! Timing will all depend on all the medications we take to sync up our cycles but it sounds like things will be rolling right along in October or November. I’m so excited for the next steps even though I know it will probably be painful and uncomfortable at times (I have lots of shots to take). It’s just so nice to know at this point that our dream of having children is back on the table.
-H